16. Pick your battles.
17. Observation is the new participation
18. Don’t forget to nourish your soul with art, sports, good food or what-have-you. It needs it.
19. Don’t diss music. It’s a primal human life force.
20. Live like nobody’s watching. Usually they aren’t anyway and you’ll feel right stupid when you’ve been cautious all your life for no reason whatsoever. (Honestly, nobody cares except you.)